the difference

I have discovered the difference between a good first date and a great first date:

Good: you recognize him from his picture on the fitness singles website when he walks in the door, you have interesting conversation, he is smart and seems to be driven and focused in his career - he has a really cool, interesting job, he doesn't seem to be a psycho, when you offer to share the bill he agrees, (kind of odd), at the end of dinner he says "I've had a really nice time and I'd like to see you again", he walks you to the valet line and shakes your hand goodnight, repeating the fact that he'd enjoy getting together again.

Great: he meets you at the door of the restaurant as he made sure to arrive first so that you didn't have to wait alone, the conversation flows to the point that you are oblivious to the fact that the restaurant has been closed for 45 minutes, you discover so much in common that it is almost odd - right down to the fact that you're both left handed, when you offer to share the bill he is horrified, he walks you to your car and asks if he could give you a goodnight hug and when you agree he sneaks in a quick, sweet peck on your cheek, then another sweet, quick peck on your lips. You cannot wait to see him again.

This is what I have learned in the past couple of weeks. There is also an in-between. I am working on articulating that one.